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How to Potty Train a Cat

My two cats, Cowboy and Mini are potty trained and folks are always amazed by it. “You don’t have a litter box?!” “Wow, how did you do that?!” So here’s my post on how I went about potty training my sweet boys.

Cowboy going potty

Cowboy going potty

Staring when they are young is ideal, but not required. You do need a few things to get started toilet training your kitty:

  1. Patience
  2. Dustpan and small wisk broom
  3. Citi Kitty cat toilet training kit (or similar product)
  4. Bio-degradable cat litter (I used Swheat Scoop)
  5. Cat treats that your cat loves
  6. Clorox/Lysol wipes

Start with designating a bathroom for kitty. If you only have one, you can share, but it can get a bit messy. Be sure it’s an area they will always have access to. Think about guests coming over, children etc. The designated training bathroom will be messy with cat litter on the floor for about 4-6 weeks. Accept that.

Using toilet safe, biodegradable litter (I used flushable wheat litter) put the kitty litter box in the bathroom. Right next to the toilet. It will be messy (kittens especially fling litter everywhere) so get a dustpan and broom and keep it in the bathroom. Also wise to keep Clorox/Lysol wipes for any accidents.

After a week, open your toilet training kit. Follow the directions. It will take 4-6 weeks for kitty to get used to it, so don’t rush anything. The idea is to create a surface for the kitty to use, then slowly remove the rings so there’s nothing but a big hole to go in. Cats naturally dig a hole, go, and cover…so these kits emulate their natural instincts.

The first few times, you have to watch kitty. Do the intro phase on a time where you will be home a lot. (For me it was the weekend). Just like potty training a human, they need positive reinforcement. Keep treats in the bathroom so when they jump up and go potty, they get a treat. My cat got to the point where if he wanted a treat he’d go pee. If kitty poops/pees elsewhere, don’t scold. Clean it up IMMEDIATELY and put something in that area to deter her. Once my kitty pooped in the tub. So I cleaned it up then put about an inch of water in the bathtub to deter him from jumping back in there. Needless to say the next time he tried it he wound up with wet paws. That was the last of that! Cat’s don’t like certain smells, aluminum foil or noises. So if you find kitty going in an inappropriate place put something there where they won’t go back. I’ve also used SSSCat! Training Aid. It works wonders.

The designated bathroom and toilet must always be available! Make sure the toilet lid is always up, seat is always down and the bathroom door is always open. Kitties unfortunately don’t understand the concept of ‘holding it’ so if they have to go and the door is closed they will just poop in the hallway. Hallway poop is no fun.

Once kitty is trained, use clorox/lysol wipes to clean the potty. But be careful to ventilate and keep area smelling neutral. Be sure not to leave any smelly chemicals either in the water or on the potty (like Pinesol or toilet bowl cleaner etc) because if they come to the potty and it smells chemical-ly they won’t go. Kitty will find another spot. I have a designated kitty bathroom, no one else uses it. I clean it about once a week (their bathroom is usually pretty clean but I clean it anyway) and I make sure to use pretty neutral smelling cleaners and I keep the vent fan on while I clean.

Bam! Now you have no icky litter box! But keep in mind…kitty poops and urine still smells, so you’ve gotta flush! I haven’t trained them to do that so far.   😉


Things I learned from my first Triathlon

1. The pool is cold. Get over it.
2. S*** happens. Keep going.
3. Don’t lean on your right handle bar on your crappy used bike because it will cause the gear cylinder to malfunction and your bike will refuse to change gears. (that’s a big one)
4. Hydrate. Hydrate. Hydrate. Pee. Pee. Pee.
5. Hair is super unruly when you swim + run to a transition area. Braid it.
6. Yay for sunscreen!
7. Running shorts are probably a better choice than spandex crop pants on a race day. Pulling on spandex pants when wet does not work out so well.
8. Having friends there to support you is awesome. It feels so good to have a crowd cheering you over the finish line (thanks amanda, kelly, erin, matt & jeff)
9. Sweet Ce-Ce’s gives out coupons but they don’t open until 3 hours after the race is done. So have a post-race treat back up plan.
10. Finishing a race feels amazing!

Some people call it Karma

So I got some news last night…that someone, somewhere got what was coming to them.* I can’t really say that I’m happy though. I feel like this person wronged me in the WORST way possible. And at the time I wanted nothing more for them to get a swift kick in the butt. I was enraged and hurt and pretty much inconsolable. But here I am 4 years later, better and stronger than ever. The pain just a memory, and a faded one at that. Truth be told, when I heard the news I really didn’t care. What did bother me is that someone else had to go through the same thing I did…at the hands of the same person. I wish that could have been prevented somehow. But I guess the reason I’m writing is so maybe someone can learn from this experience. Don’t be vengeful. I remember staying awake at night, feeling so angry…plotting and worrying. In the end, I should have just slept. If you are going through something right now that has you worked up and feeling like there is no justice in the world…just remember: in a few years it won’t even matter to you if you let go. So moral of the (long) story: LET GO.

*no, I won’t tell you who. if you know me…you know who it is.

Everyday I’m Hustlin’

Callbacks. Networking. Events. Shameless self-promoting is just part and parcel of the entrepreneurship gig. Don’t get me wrong, I love being social. But when you own your own business you have to be a social butterfly on steroids. Why? Because it ain’t who ya are…it’s who ya know. But only if who you know likes who you are. Everyday, somehow, I’m putting myself out there trying to build my myriad of contacts. Twitter, facebook, email, phone. And it’s not about just obtaining said contact. Once you’ve made a connection you have to keep it up. It’s like a little garden. Water, sunshine, plant food, singing. Keep the plants happy. Keep your contacts happy. It’s that simple. Want your network to grow? Want more opportunities? Nourish your existing contacts and plant new ones. Next thing you know you’ll have a bit of an empire.  Above all, be genuine and tactful. Nobody wants to know somebody fake and self-absorbed. Also, keep it manageable. Those people with 3000 ‘friends’ on facebook aren’t any further along than you are. They can’t possibly manage all those contacts and grow them to a real relationship. So whether you are around for business or friendship, take a look at how you are handling your contacts. Maybe take a step back and re-assess. Focus on growing what you have, not just collecting.